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Mitt’s Pedigree and The True History of Mormon Polygamy

As the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (the Mormon or LDS Church) enters the media spotlight more and more, especially surrounding the 2012 election of Mitt Romney, many questions arise concerning the rumors of polygamy.  Did the Mormon church practice polygamy before, and does it practice polygamy now?

The short answer is that, yes, the Mormon church did practice polygamy until 1890.  Since that time, the Mormons have not practiced polygamy.  In fact, even in countries where polygamy is legal, polygamists cannot join the LDS Church.  If a member of the LDS church is caught practicing polygamy, they are excommunicated (are no longer members). Continue reading

Do businesses have an obligation to morality?

By Joseph Delli Gatti

Companies often jump on board with principles such as “equal opportunity” and environmental initiatives intended to promote a certain brand or reputation among consumers.  But are businesses truly obligated to maintain these reputations behind the scenes – not just ensuring a diverse workforce and using products that are biodegradable?   At the same time that many companies put energy-star compliant ratings on products, they also use pornography (sex) and appeal of law breaking (speeding, stealing, etc) to excite people to buy these products.

Kaiser Permanente has dedicated substantial advertising efforts into promoting health and well-being.  Kaiser also maintains non-profit status, accepts medicare/medicaid patients, and promotes service opportunities among its employees. Continue reading

The Facade of California’s LGBT Movement

On Flickr.com, I saw a picture of a person holding up a sign that claimed that Mormons (the LDS faith) represented 2 percent of California’s population, but constituted 70 percent of donations to the Prop 8 campaign.  It surprised me that 2 percent of California’s population appears to be so wealthy in proportion to the anti-Prop 8 campaigners, so I did some math.

If this claim were correct, every Mormon man, woman, and child would have to donate $41.76 each on average.  Large stereotypical Mormon families with an average of five children each would be donating an average of $292.33 per family.  These numbers are if every single Mormon family donated.  This would constitute amazing participation – 100 percent participation! Continue reading

Contention in Christianity and Politics

As a follower of Christ, and as an avid supporter of Proposition 8, I have heard some arguments from both sides that have troubled me, and that have caused me to reflect on my actions and sentiments.

A certain popular Book of Mormon scripture is quoted sometimes by members of my own faith to either justify passivity or to promote tolerance on the subject of homosexuality and homosexual “marriage”.  Yet, this same scripture and the entire concept of tolerance, which tends to accompany the scripture, is used as a plea to accept homosexual “marriage” and homosexual activity as a societal norm – it just never sits right in my heart.  Usually, I recognize that unsettling feeling as God telling me to look into the statement, and either find the error in my thinking or the error of the opposition’s argument. Continue reading

The Unchangeable Definition of Marriage

by Joseph Delli Gatti

Marriage has become a hot topic, not just online, but in the news, in political campaigns, and in the courts around the country.  There seems to be a lot of confusion about what marriage is or what it can be.  I find myself somewhat amazed that five states in our nation have actually conceded that, not only is a homosexual “marriage” possible, but that the state should recognize homosexual relationships as publicly accepted marriages – to be held in the same esteem by society as a heterosexual marriage.  I certainly disagree.

A lot of explanations exist online as to why homosexual relationships should or shouldn’t be recognized as marriages.  Many articles discuss civil rights and equality for homosexuals, whether or not homosexuality is inborn, and whether or not homosexuals can control what is perceived by a majority of Americans as immoral behavior (see states that approve of/acknowledge homosexual marriages).  All of the articles that I have read on the subject erred in their focus.   Continue reading

Why Homosexuality is Bad For Society, Families, and The BSA

By Joseph Delli Gatti

This article was written in response to a LinkedIn forum topic entitled “I am curious as to what the thoughts are among Eagle Scouts across the nation about allowing Gays to be members of the Boy Scouts (link here)”.

Although this topic may cover aspects of Boy Scouting, this is a mature-adult topic.  As such, more advanced principles of ethics and sexuality will be discussed.  In other words, this is an ugly subject but is of dire importance – so, no children allowed.

Some of the arguers in favor of allowing homosexuals into the BSA scouting program mentioned that they didn’t believe sexuality had anything to do with morality, and that professed homosexual boys could be expected to act responsibly within the BSA programs. This article was written to not only explain that sexuality is an important aspect to morality, but why.  It also informally presents some aspects of why homosexuals should continue to be banned from BSA.

For preliminary research, scan these Wikipedia topics and links:

What is Marriage?

By Joseph Delli Gatti

According to the OS X.5 built-in dictionary, marriage is “the formal union of a man and woman, typically recognized by law, by which they become husband and wife.”  Another definition to this entry is as follows: “a similar long-term relationship between partners of the same sex.”  This second definition is truly the topic of debate and of a lot of questions in recent years.

Well, let’s turn to an even broader definition of what marriage is (according to the Mac Dictionary): “figurative a combination or mixture of two or more elements”  This is probably closer than both earlier definitions in accuracy.

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Still More Thoughts on Prop 8: a subjective approach

By Joseph Delli Gatti

Below is a response letter that I wrote to Marc Olmsted, author of this linked article.  Marc is gay and fought to ban Proposition 8, but came to the conclusion that it was the wrong move.  He proposed an alternate solution to provide greater validation of gay relationships.  While I don’t support his suggestion, he did provide some insights to me about what a gay couple might gain from a publicly recognized and sanctioned relationship.  

I felt somewhat inspired to share my perspective on the matter from more of a subjective angle as well.  Objectivity is important, but subjectivity allows a peek into an individual and their feelings.  That’s what I hope is provided here.  Some slight modifications and edits have been made from the original.   Continue reading

Proposition 8 and Protection of The Definition of Marriage

By Joseph Delli Gatti

Until recently, marriage as a concept has slowly been eroded, and has become less and less defined by the general public.  This was recognized by various public entities, including the LDS church.  In an attempt to re-inform its own members and to re-assert it to world what marriage means, the LDS church leaders created a document entitled The Family: A Proclamation To The World (viewable at http://www.lds.org/library/display/0,4945,161-1-11-1,FF.html). Continue reading